Sunday, May 8, 2016
THANK YOU, MOM
One day isn't long enough to honor the women who mean everything to us.
There isn't enough space on a blog or page to contain all the superlatives needed to
describe our mothers.
No chocolate is sweet enough to match the contents of the most important person in our
There isn't a bouquet of flowers or gift, no matter how expensive it is, that can match
the real value of those we call "Mom".
Charlene Devlin is my mom. The most important person in my life, as well as my brother,
Patrick, and sister, Kara.
She is more than just a mom, though. She is our best friend, confidant, cheerleader, and
inspiration. She has been the walking, talking, and living manual on "how to be a great
mom" for my sister, Kara. My sister observed, took great notes, and now embodies
everything our mom is all about.
My mother has always lived by her own "Golden rule." She does everything for everyone
else and never asks for a thing in return. Never.
She's never been in a bad mood. If she has, we have never seen it. Ever.
Mom has held us up, calmed us down, and always steered us in the right direction. Her
moral compass is perfect, unquestioned, and guides us for every decision we have to make.
My mother was blessed with many gifts: beauty, sense of humor, and great personality.
But her greatest gift is a heart of gold.
When her husband of nearly 50 years, and our dad, got Alzheimer's, one of the most
dreadful diseases, mom became his caretaker 24/7. It could have broken her, but she
remained strong, determined to give everything back to the person who gave her such
a wonderful life.
With her six grandchildren, mom has, in a way, gotten to be mother all over again,
getting to do what she does best: giving joy and happiness, not to mention an endless
barrel of gifts to them. Every day is Christmas to my mom and she always wants to
I can go on and on and on about what mom has meant to all of us, but it still won't
do her justice. I can only say, "Mom, thank you for being you, the best mother anyone
could ever ask for. I love you."
Happy Mother's Day.